Because there's more than one way to "lose it" Some people save it for marriage. Others save it for the one they love. And some people never lose it. What about the big A? But what happens when you lose your anal virginity before your actual virginity? After the initial penetration, I cried.
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Bottoming is a rite of passage most gay men make at some point in their lives. Some people, especially fundy Christians, see virginity as some kind of trump card to hold over potential suiters, a sacred act that must take place only after marriage. We like to think of losing our virginity as this magical thing between two people who are deeply in love, but the reality is, very few of us actually keep in close contact with the guys who popped our cherries. Avoid other fumbling virgins. Just locate a decent-looking, trustworthy guy whose danced the chocolate cha cha once or times before so he can show you the steps.
However, you have to take a seat back with your cup of Earl Grey tea and think that something so bad, could actually be quite good. I thought the same thing when I lost my anal virginity to a guy that came home from his Christmas break from his studies in Finland. We already knew each other before he went abroad, but we kept talking to each other during my first year at university. I will always remember that one message he sent to me on a weeknight, which said:. I also remember being scared of the potential pain; the pain of a fleshy zucchini with a circumference of 4 cm sliding into my butt with the aperture of only 1.